As we come to the end of 2010 I couldn’t help but think about all the people who will not be celebrating Christmas this year in the same way as years past. As many countries struggle to implement changes and restraints that will lead their people out of the depths of financial and personal ruin, the challenges have tested many and may continue to do so for years to come.

Some of us, to this point, have been lucky. We are not sleeping in our cars; our homes are still intact. The unemployment line is not where we go on Monday morning, we simply repeat the work week as we have done in years past. Our retirement funds were not drained but only suffered from a minor bleed that was quickly and wisely bandaged. The education funds for children were not sacrificed to keep food in the fridge and bills paid; our kids continue their studies. We go out for dinner on occasion, with no need to surf the dumpster for a meal or recyclables.

Worldwide people are trying to come to terms with the fact that what they once considered basic standards of living are now again but a dream. If you have watched this unfold, you have probably seen multiple ways in which people responded to their circumstances; tragic choices, confrontational voices and some inspiring and heroic examples of the human spirit.

As difficult as it has been, Christmas can be even tougher as there will be a lot more empty stockings this year, more than you and I will ever know. I have no illusions that we can solve the world’s problems but I wondered...”What would happen if we tried to fill our stockings this year with wishes instead of presents?” Can collective, powerful, heartfelt wishes come true? Here’s my wishes:

I wish that more people than ever before will ask “How can I help my nation, community and neighbours?” rather than create more obstacles.

I wish that wisdom will prevail at all levels, with even the smallest of voices heard, in order to affect a positive change for our future.

I wish that the top 1% can pool their resources to save the 99%, at a time when they need it most. Only because right now it is the least they could do.

I wish that healthcare for all citizens was not an item for debate or reform but the strongest position for a democratic, caring nation. It will be non-negotiable and with it comes healthy children and adults who can rely less on costly interventions and instead bring happiness, prosperity and service.

I wish for peace but not in context of war; as I have learned that wish can’t be granted. Instead peace will emerge in one home at a time, where those that harm will seek help and those that help will be recognized for their bravery.

I wish that our children continue to see the value and joy in work and communication, so as not to lose what has helped us evolve and kept us as human beings not just humans doing.

I wish that not one more child or woman ever has to question “Why me?” as they look down at the chains that bind them.

I wish the HIV becomes an acronym for HUMANITY IS VICTORIOUS, because we used our knowledge and compassion to wipe out this deadly disease.

I wish that each of you reading this will fill your stocking similarly.

Choose your wishes carefully there are lots of people counting on us to keep dreams alive.

Here are some of Jennifer's favorite charities

CANADA

The Salvation Army

Shelter From the Storm

Charity Village

Canada Helps - Animals

US & INTERNATIONAL

Gifts In Kind International

Feeding America

Boys & Girls Clubs of America

There are so many ways to give over the holiday season. Take a moment to donate a few dollars online and bins are everywhere for your local food bank, SPCA or to put in a childs' toy.